The Grass is Always Greener…

by Christina Geyer on January 9, 2012 · 32 comments

You can imagine my surprise when I spotted this in the dairy section of my nearby Real supermarket:

Irish Land grated cheddar cheese Yep, that’s grated cheddar!

Not only that, over Christmas, in the baking aisle, there was real, honest to goodness, vanilla extract (I’m still going to make my own though). Dr Pepper is now available at the same price as other sodas, along with vanilla and cherry Coke. Pepperidge Farms cookies have recently joined the sinfully delicious chocolate-covered Oreos in the cookie aisle. Haagen Daaz and Ben & Jerrys are ever present in the freezer section. Sweet potatoes and Haas avocados are almost always in-stock (Haas avocados even occasionally show up in our tiny, local, village Edeka).

Things have changed a lot in the almost 10 years I’ve been in Germany. I remember when none of these things were around. Blocks of cheddar were hard to come by.

Even with these “advances,” I still long for trips to Italy and France to give me a chance to stock up on French and Italian goodies for my pantry. I’ve always thought that expats in France and Italy have it made, surrounded by amazing cuisines and able to visit gorgeous markets. Then, this winter, two of my favorite expat bloggers, David Lebowitz in Paris and Michelle Fabio in Calabria, Italy, both complained about ingredients they couldn’t come by in their countries. I don’t remember what they were now, but they were all items that I can pick up in the nearest city.

I’m starting to think that, as far as expat life goes, maybe I shouldn’t be so jealous of those folks just over the border. I think I’ve got it pretty good right here. Okay, well, maybe I’ll still be just a little jealous.

Do you miss anything that you can’t get in your area? I want to look into the possibility of growing Key lime and Meyer lemon trees here.

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Family Bathroom: Before and After

by Christina Geyer on January 3, 2012 · 12 comments

When we bought our house, we knew we wanted to renovate the guest bathroom. Our wish was to update all the bathrooms, but a full bathroom renovation is very expensive, and we could only afford to renovate one full bath. There is another full bath on the basement level that was not in great shape. Eventually, even though this bathroom was in pretty good condition, we settled on doing the family bath, because it’s the one we’d be using more often. We did come up with an affordable solution for the basement bath and I am very happy with it now. I’ll feature that room sometime in the future.

Bathroom: BeforeFamily Bathroom: Before

Bathroom: BeforeFamily Bathroom: Before

I didn’t like how dark the bathroom was before, with floor to almost ceiling navy blue tiles, but they were in good condition and were big, thick, expensive Villeroy & Boch tiles (from 1972). I also wasn’t a big fan of the gray floor together with the blue walls. The bathroom was okay, but I also felt a bit under water in there.

Problems, Problems, Problems

We went to a couple bath places and got estimates. Completely renovating a bathroom is about the same as buying a big Mercedes. We picked out tiles and contacted a tile layer from our village who was highly recommended by some friends. Our move in date was 1 month out from the day we took control of the house, so we figured all, or at least most, of the work would be done before we moved in.

The bathroom was emptied of fixtures and tiles by our plumber (another local, I generally recommend going with locals when living in a village, as they have the most to lose if they don’t do a good job). The heating guy came in and, although we hadn’t planned it, convinced us to add in floor heating as it would only cost 500 Euro more. We thought that sounded great. Unfortunately, that was only 500 Euro more for his part. The subfloor needed more concrete and the costs for everything else suddenly rose.

There were delays, and our move in date came and went.  Now we were living in a construction site.

A day before the tiler was supposed to start, he emailed us that his costs were increasing by 500 Euro and if we didn’t transfer it to him that day, he couldn’t do the project. We thought this was fishy and asked him for an itemized list of where expenses had increased. Two weeks passed and we still hadn’t heard from him. I guess something more lucrative had come his way.

The tile needed to get done, so we got an estimate from the other local tile man, which was pretty high. He could see our desperation and there is, of course, a desperation surcharge. Rainer ended up picking some tile people off the site My-Hammer.de. They came out, gave us a fair estimate, and they had good reviews, so we said yes.

While I think they would have been excellent at your basic tile job, they complained that the stone tiles we had chosen weren’t easy to cut through. Then they didn’t know what to do with the turquoise mosaic tiles we had chosen, since they were quite thin, and the stone tiles were thick. They laid them flat with the bottom of the stone tiles, so the tiles had markedly different heights. Not good.

They had to come back out because the shower floor didn’t grade properly and the water would pool in spots. They removed the shower floor tile and redid it. They also put a second layer of mosaic over the first so that the surface was even with the stone tiles. I wasn’t happy about this, since the mosaic was very expensive Bisazza mosaic, but at least they came out and did it. They were nice about it too and didn’t complain. We were worried when we saw the problems, that we would end up having to sue them and wouldn’t have the bathroom done for months, so we were very happy that the bathroom was done without too many additional headaches. I imagine these tile workers are good at basic stuff (turns out their main work is drywall, but they also do tile, which Rainer neglected to tell me – I would have insisted on someone whose main work was tilework). Our job was a complicated one and they didn’t recognize their limitations.

The Finished Product

Bathroom: AfterBathroom: After

After the tile was done and the old straps for the outdoor window shutters were put back in place, we realized that they were poorly placed originally, which we hadn’t noticed before (one twisted around the edge of the windowsill).  Since the windows were frosted, we didn’t think we needed to use the shutters, but this left big holes cut in the tile for the straps.  We ended up getting these wall vases to cover the holes.

I like having them as decoration on the tile, and I probably wouldn’t have put anything up if there hadn’t been holes to cover. Also, if we have to sell the house someday, it gives the next owner the flexibility to put the shutter pulls back in if they chose.

Bathroom: AfterWall vases

Bathroom: After“Extra-long” tub

Bathroom: AfterSink and open shower

Bathroom: AfterOpen rain shower whose floor proved so difficult

I love having an open rain shower. I liked the look, but worried a little about water getting out of the shower. It does just a little, but not enough that it is a bother.

Bathroom: AfterTowel warmer

In it’s past incarnation, there was also a bidet in the bathroom. We decided to eliminate it to make more space. We had started out wanting to replace the bidet with a toilet, but then decided not to include a toilet. The guest toilet is next door and this way, you can really relax in the tub without staring at a toilet.

What we learned

While we were in the middle of renovating, we felt like it was a nightmare and regretted our decision to renovate. Especially the decision to put in in-floor heating, since that seems to be what started all the mess. In the end though, we love love love our bathroom and we especially love the in-floor heating. It was a major headache and cost more than we expected, but it was definitely worth it.

In the end, what I learned from this project, is to go with a bathroom company if you’re not able to manage the work yourself (and most people are not able to manage while looking after two small children obsessed with getting at the workmen’s tools) and/or don’t know anything about renovation (we had never renovated anything before, and although I’d seen my parents renovate and manage contractors, I had never done it myself, and building techniques are very different in Germany). The estimates from these companies are higher than if you go with getting estimates from all the various contractors, but if there are problems, the price does not go up for the companies. Their estimates include dealing with any unseen problems that come up.

It’s also important to know what you want and not change your mind, as I found changing your mind mid-project, even if you remove something, seems to raise all prices. We had originally wanted a built in bench next to the tub and decided to eliminate it mid-project so the floorplan is more flexible. I am glad we eliminated it, but doing so mid-project was a problem.

If you aren’t 100% certain what you want, wait until you are.

We made a lot of mistakes along the way, but we are happy with the way things turned out. Are you thinking about renovating a bathroom? Do you have any advice to share?

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Kids’ Room: Before and After

by Christina Geyer on November 7, 2011 · 23 comments

The room we chose for the kids was the previous owner’s home office.  Here’s the before:

Kids' Room: Before

and here’s the after:

Kids' Room: After

The color scheme was mostly decided on by Oliver.  He wanted a blue room, so I picked out a couple swatches and he chose the shade he wanted.  He also picked out the bed sheets.

Kids' Room: After

I got the wall stickers in the US from Land of Nod and brought them back with me. The clock is the Koziol PI:P Wanduhr, which is available in a variety of colors.

Kids' Room: After

I got the idea for a chalkboard wall from a magazine.  I wanted it to be magnetic as well, so I ordered magnet paint (1xMagnetFarbe Magpaint 2500 ml Dose) and chalkboard paint (6xMarabu Tafelfarbe, schwarz, 250 ml) off Amazon.  If you ever want to get the paint off your wall again someday, it’s best to paint onto liner paper.  This is a wallpaper used to provide a smooth base for other wallpapers or paints.  We hung two strips horizontally.  To really get the magnets to stick well, I used four coats of magnet paint, topped by two coats of chalkboard paint.  The kids love it.

Kids' Room: After

Kids' Room: After

Kids' Room: After

Kids' room

The poof is by RICE (a Danish design company that has lots of fun stuff for kids) and I got it at Takatomo.de.  RICE also makes great, colorful, unbreakable, melamine dishware that we have for the kids, that is still nice enough that I would give it to adults too.

Kids' Room: After

This wooden toy is a Kugelbahn by the company Drewa Holz.

Kids' Room: After

When using color, I find it helps to repeat colors throughout the room, like the green in the lamp, bedsheet and leaves. I also repeated the black from the chalkboard wall with the black clock.

Kids' room

This ride on toy is a Wheely Bug, made by an Australian company and available in Bee, Cow, Mouse, Ladybug and more.

I’m quite happy with how the kids’ room turned out.  Are you working on any renovation projects?

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Still Daddy’s Girl

November 2, 2011

It’s been 10 years and I still miss you, daddy, every single day. I miss our long talks. My dad was my best friend.  He was an avid gardener and loved clematises, planting them wherever he could. Now that I have a garden of my own, I’ve planted three clematises so far.  Every time I [...]

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Happy Zombie-Lovin’ Halloween

October 31, 2011

Some gory zombie fun from my favorite German band. Junge (Boy) Junge, warum hast du nichts gelernt? Boy, why haven’t you learned anything? Guck dir den Dieter an, der hat sogar ein Auto. Look at Dieter, he even has a car. Warum gehst du nicht zu Onkel Werner in die Werkstatt? Why don’t you join [...]

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Oan wunderschoenn guadn moagn !

October 24, 2011

This is the view I enjoyed with my coffee (the view when I woke was pitch black, as the kids decided 6:30 was a good time to get up). 7:30am 7:50am 8:15am 10:00am Is it just me, or are the leaves not changing color this year?  They seem to just be falling off the trees [...]

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Guest Bathroom: Before and After

October 12, 2011

When we first saw our house, we loved everything about it except this room. We knew that this room had to be renovated. We just couldn’t live with baby poop yellow wall tile.  A few thousand Euro later, here’s what we ended up with: We found the mirror in the clearance section at Kare. Some [...]

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